Can women act like men?

Women worry about what they say and how they come across, but you have to learn that with me, the cards are all out on the table. So after being in a relationship for what seemed like an eternity (it was only just under a year) and not being happy for the majority of the duration and yes I know that sounds bad but cant women think and act like a men sometimes?

Okay so let me explain, I got into a relationship with a guy that was a friend beforehand. Yeah it was great, I didn’t have to go through the whole first impression and ‘argh what if we have nothing to talk about’ phase on the first date. It was perfect, we both worked and only saw each other when we wanted and had so much fun together. After a few months it got serious, talking about going on holiday, staying at each other’s place most nights and then eventually talking about moving in together in the near future. 

But then the bubble burst.. events in each of our life’s happened. Change of jobs and change of homes, in both cases. After he moved out of his parents house into an apartment with one of his friends he started to change. He started to get a little too occupied to spent time with me, which at first yeah I was a little annoyed but who wouldn’t be? But being the bigger person I let it go and let him get on with it but boy was that a mistake. He mistook my ‘laid back’ approach as ‘I can bail on all our plans because you’re ok with it’ well NO, I must add that at this point we hadn’t has sex in 3 months. Now I know sex isn’t a major part of a loving relationship but I’m 22 for gods sake, its all I can think about..

 

Anyway, I confronted him and got given the whole ‘ill change, I promise’ speech. But nothing did and I wasn’t happy and I hadn't been for a really long time so I ended the relationship and it was the best decision I had ever made cause now I’m happy. But according to Mr T (thats what we shall call him) I was a heartless bitch who broke his heart? So am I a woman, acting like a man?